I had a great time last night, although i was not able to eat a lot, still i enjoyed the company and warmth of my friends.

DECISIONS and DESTINY
"Our destiny is the summation of all our decisions". (I heard this somewhere, i think it was from the movie Catch Me If You Can.)
True, our fate is determined by the decisions we made along the way. Where am I going with this? I have a friend who needs a little help with a decision. On one hand, my friend does not want to disappoint the family, on the other, my friend is doubtful of what lies ahead. (i didin't use pronouns because i wish to protect my friend's identity.) I wish i can help my friend but i can't. It would be selfish of me if i try to help my friend decide, why? because it would benefit me if my friend would decide one way and it would be a loss for me if my friend decides the other. I wish not to influence my friend's decisions. But still, i will be supportive and very happy whatever my friend's decision will be. : )

We are faced with thousands even millions of decisions everyday, in one way or another, we affect each other's lives when we make decisions. DECIDE WELL.